The sad truth of the matter is that guys need to chase or pursue something…or, in the case of dating…someone. It’s in their DNA. If they’re not chasing “prey”, they lose interest pretty easily.
Maybe it’s a biological problem, but men thrive off the “thrill of the chase”. Once the thrill of the chase is over, his interest often wanes. I think every woman has been in that situation.
You know the one…
Suddenly the passion starts dying out. The texts start becoming less and less frequent. The calls less urgent. You don’t hear the same “need” in his voice that you used to at the beginning of the relationship.
It’s sad to say, but often the reason for the dissipation of emotion is that he’s started to take you for granted. He’s started to believe that you’re just going to be there, no matter what, and that he doesn’t really have to try anymore.
So what’s a girl to do to remedy the situation? How do you make him miss you and keep him interested in pursuing you?
There are a number of ways to light a fire under your man and remind him how special you are and how you deserve to be treated. All of the tactics I’m going to mention involve withdrawing a bit, and rekindling in your man that need to pursue you.
I also recommend taking a look at Lovetraction Lines. What are Lovetraction Lines? Powerful words, phrases, and verbal techniques you can use to reawaken a man’s need to pursue and protect you.
Every girl should be armed with a few of these!
When you withdraw and play a little bit “hot and cold”, it alerts a man to the fact he could lose you, and more often than not, that’s enough to get him to put more effort into the relationship again.
With that in mind, let’s discuss how to make him miss you using three very simple techniques.
1. Make Him Wait
When he sends texts and when he calls, don’t be instantly available every time. Let some time elapse before you respond, and don’t pick up the phone on the first ring. Sometimes, let it go to voicemail. Then, call him back later.
I’m not advocating emotional torture or anything like that, but if you want him to miss you, then you can’t be too available. He’ll work harder for your attention when he understands he’s not always your top priority. Make him miss you by making it clear that you actually have a life that doesn’t revolve around him 24/7.
If you’re always available, he won’t miss you. He’ll just take you for granted.
2. Make The Sex Memorable
Actually, the above should read “make the sex memorable…when you allow him to have it.” Again, this has to do with reminding him of what he has, and keeping him constantly wondering about where he really stands with you. Remember, he’s going to chase you more if it feels like he hasn’t quite reeled you in yet.
Don’t always be up for sex when he is. If he’s in the mood, let him wait. Tease him a little bit with some dirty talk and make him chase after you.
When you finally do consent to get back into bed, make the sex absolutely mind-blowing. I should mention that it’s no fun being in a relationship devoid of physical intimacy, so don’t withhold it for too long. After all, you aren’t creating your own little “sexual torture chamber”.
Rather, the idea is to simply keep him guessing.
3. Live Your Life…And Tell Him About It
If you want to know how to make him miss you, this is one of the most effective ways. Don’t stop living your life for him. You don’t want him thinking that all you do all day is sit around waiting for him to call.
Spend time with friends. Don’t text him all day long with updates. Let him wonder about what you’re doing and who you’re doing it with. Then, at the end of the day contact him and share your experiences. The more fun you’re having without him, the more he’ll think about you, the more he’ll miss you, and the more he’ll want to be a part of your life.
Make a guy miss you by being just out of reach so he never quite gets enough of you. That’s how you’ll keep him locked into the thrill of the chase.